Monday 30 June 2014

Home Visits

Today half of us went to visit the homes of some of the students at Greater Joy. It certainly was an insightful day. We visited five houses which gave us the chance to gain a perspective of what life is like for families living at completely different ends of the financial spectrum. It's safe to say we were all overwhelmed. To some extent, we all knew what to expect but nothing could have prepared us for what we saw today. It was heartbreaking to see how little they had and how reliant they were on one member of the family to provide for what we consider an overly large household (this is because they often culturally care for children who are not their own, if they are without means of support) . This was significant as it emphasised just how fragile each family's situation is and how a household could so easily be left with nothing. Despite this, their pride overpowered any sense of injustice of their situation. Each and every single household owner welcomed us into their home with such warmth and joy that you could not help but feel at ease.  I think what hit us most was in the second house a sixteen year old boy (our age) was totally immobile and dependent on his mother to feed him as he contracted malaria at the age of four. Knowing that his life will always require the help of another was an extremely overwhelming realisation, especially as there is no disability financial support provided by the government. Meaning that his mother would always be under a constant pressure to provide for the household as well to care and support this particular son - throughout her entire life, was a profound experience. This situation really brought home just how fortunate we have been to be born in a country that does provide government support to the people who need it, alongside the accessibility to things that we consider basic elements of everyday life, such as food, water, employment and housing.  All in all it was an eye opening experience that will certainly stay with us for a long time and hopefully will shape the conscious choices we make in the future for the better.

Love to all back home, miss you all,
Georg (Loulou), Clara and Sophie K.

P.S - Jenna said "Mum can you comment with your name so I know it's you".

9 comments:

  1. Wow you have experienced so much already !!! I could cry reading that

    Aileen xxxx

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  2. Brings tears to my eyes xx
    Jeanie Harrison

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  3. What a wonderful, amazing experience for you all. Congratulations on your achievements.
    We are very proud grandparents & Uncle. Love from Rhianna's Nana & Grandad.

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  4. Another amazing account of your daily challenges and an emotional one too. Not much I can say here really other than we miss you too. Great work Team Zambia. Mummy Cahill xoxox

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  5. yours and Ms McEnvoys words are so moving and so true Remember you are doing something wonderful to help these childrens lives It may not change their lives forever but it will certainly make a wonderful difference Be inspired and keep going Team Zambia Very proud of you!! XX

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  6. We'll done to you all. We love reading the blog updates. It sounds like a brilliant experience.
    Jess we are so proud of you.
    Love Cynthia, Jamie and Ethan

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  7. It's so lovely to hear about your day. What a lovely experience this is for you all.
    Jess we are so proud of you.
    Love Cynthia, Jamie and Ethan x

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  8. Hi to all in Team Zambia. It's been so fantastic to see your photos and read your blogs. It's great to see you all working so hard and looking so happy too! I bet you've discovered muscles you never knew you had!. Make the most of this amazing opportunity of seeing first-hand into the lives of others and how different they are from your own, and enjoy being able to do your bit to help improve their situation. We're proud of you. Love Judith, Andy and Ruby Glessing xxx

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  9. Hi everyone, I have finally managed to get online after many, many attempts (and lost messages/fails) I can now do it! It looks like you're all having a wonderful experience and a lovely time! It's great seeing all the pictures and blogs about your days there! I see you have all been working so hard and its looking great! I'm so proud of you Eddie growing up so fast and having a great time doing it! You're all such a credit to your families and I'm proud of you all! Love and miss you so much Eddie, Lots of love Mamma Woodley xxxxxx

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